for lack of my own words some reflections...
"We are imperfect mortal beings, aware of that mortality even as we push it away, failed by our very own complication, so wired that when we mourn our losses we also mourn, for better or for worse, ourselves . As we were. As we are no longer. As we will one day not be at all"- Joan Didion
Life changes in an instant, the ordinary instant... -Joan Didion
